We all know what the black sheep of the family is, it is that person that everyone sees as a stranger. There are always conflicts and little or no understanding for that person or their life situation. Usually born empaths. They become the "scape goat" of the entire family. Everything is their fault and doesn't do anything right.
Imagine growing up being "The Black Sheep." I dare to guess that the vast majority of us who have awakened and walked the spiritual path were or are the black sheep of the family.
Growing up in this way is not easy and creates thousands of traumas that are carried and reflected throughout our life until we consciously heal and free ourselves. We grow up seeking acceptance from our family, but once we heal and see things as they are, few of us resist continuing to endure our parents' built-in narcissism. Many of us use substances at some point in our lives, seeking to ease the pain of emotional neglect and its consequences on our life. Attachment in childhood is one of the most important stages because it is when we define our love ties. It is where we know love for the first time and from where our inspiration is born as we grow to love the world. We are filled with insecurities from a very young age, and our consciousness is divided very sharply between what we are and what we have to be to be seen; hence rebellion is born.
Child mentality only understands that it wants attention and will seek it however it is, it is up to the parents to guide and assist the child to find his way. When both or one of the parents is narcissistic, it can cause severe emotional confusion, leading to the diversion of conscience of the minor and the beginning of a series of events that only the same parent can change again or the child once learns the necessary tools to heal.
Why the acceptance of that "Black Sheep" by the family is so difficult?. To understand this, we have to go much further back.
Perhaps you've heard of the term "Soul Family" and questioned what it really is. We are energy, fragmented from a singularity (Source) into incalculable opposites. If we start from "Source" as a singularity, we have a singularity with the need for expansion, dividing itself into Source (unity) / Expansion (separation). From Separation, 2 opposing needs are born again Re-union / division. If we continue to “divide” each new formed singularity in half, we arrive at our Soul Family. The Soul Family is like a "line" of need within Source Consciousness. Living beings in turn have experiences that create needs that are not satisfied and desires not fulfilled, thus expanding even more Source Consciousness with more needs.
So who is the black sheep?
Let's say that Alicia had a childhood in which she wanted to be free, to be able to enjoy her friendships and have independence, but her mother would not let her. Alicia grew up with insecurities and traumas that she buried as if they did not exist and did not heal, consequently she spread her traumas. When Alice is going to be a mother, a soul from the "line" of opposing needs for "confinement / freedom" will create an agreement with Alice's earthly ancestors, where they will agree on the type of lessons that that soul will come to live, with the sole intention of learning what Alicia refused to do of her own accord after her childhood. So Alicia has a daughter whom she calls Sabrina.
As Sabrina grows, Alicia’s resentment towards herself grows. She cannot understand her daughter because Sabrina still has the feeling or vague memory of "confinement / freedom" impregnated in her DNA and in her energetic encoding as the lessons she needs to learn from. Sabrina becomes the Black Sheep, she becomes everything that her mother (Alicia) buried long ago and since her agreement was broken and that lesson was given to someone else (Sabrina), Alicia feels lost because her lesson now will be to learn from her daughter who accepted the agreement to satisfy the need that Alicia came to learn. The rejection of the lessons creates increasingly strong energy blocks and it will be that much difficult to unblock them, so Alicia will see in Sabrina every day that inner conflict mixed with her hidden pain, denial and * projection. And this is how we get to the key of who the Black Sheep is.
The black sheep, in this dimension, is the projection of emptiness in the absence of purpose as a consequence for breaking the spiritual agreement. In the Source dimension, it is the expansion of consciousness imprinted with need for the fulfillment of that agreement.
Let's say that Sabrina also breaks the agreement so as not to be "The Black Sheep", then she will pass her traumas to her child by means of indoctrination based on life experiences and so, converting the original need, into Ancestral Karma. Now Sabrina’s child will not only carry with 2 generations of broken agreements (and the earthly traumas that it creates as a consequence), they will also have the responsibility of healing, to give a "reset" to the ancestral lineage karma to avoid dragging with it and with the learning debt that was supposed to be acquired through the lessons pre-agreed upon by the soul and the ancestors. Now would fall on them the title of the "black sheep"
This, multiplied by all your incarnated ancestors with their own agreements that they forgot and did not fulfill, plus the traumas that continued to pass from generation to generation and we find the "black sheep’s" of today, expanded / separated at both ends of the same line where the pain for emptiness either destroys us completely or forces us to heal by breaking us and remaking us by our own means.
If you are the Black Sheep of your family, remember that you have a very important mission, to fulfill the agreement that your parents broke and free your descendants from ancestral karma.
To be the “black sheep” is a compliment. It means you are here to save your family from their own karmic debt, it means you are an Alchemist that can transform the negative energy into healing, take the responsibility with honor.
I am honored to share the title with you.
Healing not only benefits us personally, when we heal, we heal the world around us.
May this help someone
Blessed be Alchemist Eyes
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